Touch is the oldest form of communication. Moreover, it reveals the unsuspected capacities of the body to receive and give pleasure.
The refining and enhancing of this pleasure leads the person to awakening one’s latent capacities of experiencing intense, total orgasms and thus the person is allowed to have a glance at the Absolute.
This is why the people need to awaken their sensuality and this capacity of experiencing orgasms, not for the sake of pleasure, but because sensuality is a divine gift that can be used to rediscover our Creator.
In the East, massage was part of the daily body hygiene, just as bath, gymnastics, and teeth brushing. Moreover, the Kama Sutra mentions that the sensuous massage is a revigorating ingredient that can be included in the foreplay.
Unfortunately, western civilization considers touch a taboo subject and lovemaking as a handy means of releasing the so-called tensions and stresses accumulated.
This vision on lovemaking and touch determined the modern man to lose the ability to enjoy his or her own sensuality. This is also the root-cause of the modern man’s hunt for strong sensations – the incapacity to perceive and enjoy one’s own sensuality.
In fact, for many people touch has become a lost language, while it continues to be an essential form of nourishment – a source of health, relaxation, joy, and happiness.
Nevertheless, what is sensuality? In the true sense of the word, sensuality means sensorial sensitivity. A truly sensual massage seeks to make a person rediscover one’s sensorial sensitivity, to rediscover the capacity to enjoy the pleasures of the senses.
Do not take sexual excitation for sensuality. The sensual massage opens the gates of the sensorial universe. This is why it needs to be considered and experienced from the correct point of view.
The modern man will be surprised to know that for the human being, the tactile sensations received through the palms and skin are the basic catalytic elements of a complete sexual experience.
However, in order to experience and rediscover one’s own sexuality one will have to focus on the sensations.
BASIC RULES IN THE SENSUAL MASSAGE
1. MENTAL OPENING TOWARDS RELAXATION AND PLEASURE
When you prepare to give and receive a massage, the first thing to do is to take your mind from all the daily problems. Tell yourselves that the time to come out from the cycle of the daily problems has come and that moments of relaxation and intense pleasure await you.
Abandon yourself to this wonderful experience together with your beloved, regardless of the hypostasis of receiver or giver in which you are. Drop, each in its turn, all mental, psychic, or physical barriers and open up your whole being to your own sensuality.
2. THE PERSON GIVING THE MASSAGE SHOULD BE RELAXED AND RESTED
The state of the person giving the massage is very important. This state of offering something special to one’s beloved should come out of an inner state of plenitude and profound love.
Remember that the sensual massage is an act of love, so it has to come out of love, to express love and to generate love and joy. If you feel the slightest pressure at the thought that you are about to give a massage, you had better postpone the massage for a further moment.
Also, if you are tired, do not embark into this experience because it will lose its valence of means of awakening the pleasure. It should be a total, complete experience.
Another essential aspect is that it has to touch your lover for your own pleasure. Do not try to arouse your lover. You had better try to discover what makes you both feel good.
This advice may seem a paradox for an ordinary person, but those who are initiates in the art of lovemaking, it is all clear: during a sensual massage, the empathy is very much awakened, which makes the transfer of the emotional states between the two be quite quick.
In other words, if one of the two lovers will experience a great state of pleasure, it will shortly and intensely be experienced by the other lover as well.
Nonetheless, just as you focus on your own pleasure coming from touching your lover, you need to be receptive to the sensual answers coming from your lover. Thus, you will know how to correlate the massage with the sensorial map of your lover’s body.
Be complete in the experience you have when giving a massage. You forget all about yourselves, all there is your lover’s body, immersed in the pleasure given by your skillful hands.
3. THE PERSON RECEIVING THE MASSAGE NEEDS TO ABANDON HIM OR HERSELF COMPLETELY TO THE MASSAGE AND THE SENSATIONS COMING FROM IT
Giving a sensual massage is an art. Nonetheless, knowing how to receive one is just as much an art – the art of being able to abandon one’s own entire being into someone else’s hands.
When you are given a massage, relax completely and become aware of your own receptiveness. Relax your body and focus as much as you can on your sensations. The term “focus” may sound improper associated with the massage, but in fact being aware and focused on the sensations bring about the relaxation that accompanies the massage.
Become perceptive and quiet your mind. Allow your body to speak its own language. Be glad that you offer your beloved the possibility to manifest freely and express his or her feelings directly through touch. Enjoy the beatitude of the caress, melt in the ocean of ecstasy and return the thrill of beatitude in your beloved.
4. WHEN IT IS NOT RECOMMENDED THAT YOU PERFORM A SENSUAL MASSAGE
Regardless of the benefits that the sensual massage brings, there are certain situations in which it is not recommended. Here are these situations:
– When your beloved has a skin problem, a contagious disease or fever
– When your beloved has a severe swelling or acute inflammation in an area of his or her body
– When your lover has severe physical traumas
– When your lover has tromboflebitis, do not massage those areas
– When your beloved has severe psychic problems
AS A CONCLUSION
In the contemporary man, stress and acute lack of self-confidence lead to a chronic tension in their body. This tension blocks the circulation of the blood, and of the energy, which in their turn decrease our capacity of functioning normally.
Finally, these blockages create obstacles in the path of the joy brought about by sexuality and the ability to experience prolonged, intense orgasms.
The role of the sensual massage is to ensure the free circulation of the sexual energy. Thus, the energy stuck in our fears will be released and the inner conflicts that surround our sexuality and our relationships will be solved.
The sensual massage may lead to a happier, healthier, and more fulfilling sex life.