A Perspective on Venus’s Position in the Zodiac, 5

It is not very favorable to the sentimental and erotic life. The persons who have this position tend to take their friendship very seriously, being responsible, mature and reticent in beginning a more intimate relationship.

They control their feelings up to the point of completely inverting them.
They are very sober with the others in general and with the representative of the other sex in particular.

They don’t show their feelings and they need much time to let someone approach them.

It is very hard for them to fall in love, but when they do it can be for the whole life. They are predisposed to solitude and they prefer to suffer in silence than manifesting their love if the other person don’t pay them the expected attention.

Sometimes they can marry from a certain interest, from a convenience or even from their strong sense of duty.

They are generally preoccupied by their social and professional position to which they pay much time and they expect from their lovers to have a similar position.

They are not fond of the domestic life and they generally don’t like children.

Although they seem very distant, when they really like someone they are very devoted and can do many sacrifices to continue a relationship.

It gives the natives an airy (or ethereal) sensibility, with a light, gracious, sublimated nuance. Their emotions are very much elevated and they live in a state of serenity, very distant of the earth.

They understand love in a very idealized way and their eroticism is rather a way of living a spiritual communion.

Sometimes the accent is put on a very free and non-conformist way of manifesting themselves, ignoring the social constraints.

They are not interested in marriage as a social, rigid habit, because they think that what really matters is the soul and spiritual communion.

Their relationships are not based on the physical interaction but, when it is the case, they don’t have any prejudgments in making love and they are very open-minded in their erotic expectations.

They don’t like the possessive and jealous persons because for them liberty is the most important criteria in a couple and if they feel constraint they leave from relationship.

They are good friends, being interesting and often original companions.


Gives the native very much tenderness, sensibility, compassion, kindness.

Their love is often based on a mystical view upon the world and they are characterized by a dominant power of transfiguration and devotion.

They can seem incoherent in their feelings and manifestations because they act in accordance with some invisible realities, which they perceive by their intuitive structure.

Sometimes, this position can give the tendency to have uncertain and mysterious relationships, with an indefinite status, which is in a perpetual changing and enable the individual to live in a complete liberty of manifestation.

They like privacy very much, and they feel the fact of making love as a total way of abandoning themselves, of merging into the person they love.

They can’t stand any form of constraint and if they are imposed to do something, they just slip between your fingers.

When they feel inspired, they are very loving beings, being able to sacrifice themselves for their beloved ones.

They have also a very charitable soul and they live for the others, sharing their happiness and trying to soothe their sorrows.

With this position the zodiacal tour for the planet of love and pleasure, Venus, is finished.
We can add more only an important aspect, referring to the so called ‘three steps of love’.

It is a tradition in astrology that they are three main positions of Venus in the zodiac:
– Venus in Taurus, which signifies the carnal, physical love
– Venus in Libra, which signifies the human love, the warmth of the human relationship, from soul to soul
– Venus in Pisces, which signifies the spiritualized, pure love

It is said that these three steps must be learned by every human being for becoming complete.

Knowing all the three aspects of love we can become universal and, of course our relationship will then be a model of harmony and beauty!

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Lovemaking with Continence vs. Typical Lovemaking, 2

Intercourse, in case of lovemaking with sexual continence, becomes a blissful, great expansion in a couple of months. It gradually leads the two lovers to overcome a vulgar, instinctual biological act. Thus the loving couple tends to become an ideal, cosmic, divine one. Sensuality, amplified and refined to the extreme, due to the perfect sexual continence, appears in the Indian spiritual tradition as a simple and natural way of reaching the divine ecstasy (Samadhi).

Extremely intense erotic experience due to the sexual continence is enriched with transsensorial values and it leads to progressive state of bliss and autonomy for both lovers. This kind of erotic act also represents a mysterious way of knowledge, the perfectly controlled sensual pleasure being an instrument to an ecstatic state that frees the spirit and the mind.

Thanks to the perfect sexual continence the intense sexual tension is sublimated into high forms of energy and it is not consumed through ejaculation; the seminal emission is completely turned off during orgasm because of a powerful process of mental focusing. That allows a full self-control, both on ejaculation and on erotic pleasure. We will present comparatively the two ways of lovemaking: normal, with ejaculation and – the one with sexual continence. Thus you will be able to see the advantages and disadvantages of both of them.

We know that all of you who had realized the intercourse without sexual continence convinced yourselves about the obvious disadvantages and limitations of it. Any man who is in love wished to make love to his lover as much as possible, even 5 or 6 times a day, and not to feel exhausted in the end. On the contrary, he wished he felt filled with force and happiness. Sexual continence successfully realized gives you the liberty to do WHATEVER YOU WISH TO DO, EVEN IF IT SOUND IMPOSSIBLE BEFORE.

Now, let see the comparative analysis of the two types of orgasm: usual orgasm and total successive orgasm without ejaculation.

(without ejaculation)
Explosion. The erotic energy wastes inevitably in a short time. While the intensity of the feeling diminishes in comparison with the one had at the beginning of the sexual intercourse Implosion. The erotic potential is transmuted and the resulted erotic energy sublimates into energies more and more elevated and they accumulate into your profound being levels. They induce unique pleasure states and also extraordinary, reach and refined phenomena. The feeling intensity gets bigger constantly and does not diminish at the end of the experience
It happens in such a short time that you feel nostalgia about its burning out so quickly It happens out of the ordinary time (indefinite as duration) because of the endless sensation of bliss that is being induced through the entire being at both lovers, giving them happiness and joy of living
It’s only about body and nothing else It happens out of your physical body but in your subtle bodies (astral body, mental body, causal body)
It’s a game that you play with your partner It is a game played with (within) yourself but you feel the other emphatically as yourself
The idea “I depend on him/her” is being induced spontaneously The idea of “the other” vanishes because of the spontaneous transfiguration and thus you can feel a gigantic dilatation of your consciousness, connected with the one of the other, endlessly
The man is the one that takes action while the woman is in expectation The two lovers change the roles, being active and passive alternatively
The breathing is accelerating, chaotic even The breathing is gentle, calm, and rhythmical
It’s a reflex act that leads to loosing control (unconscious, an impression of animal, impetuous, uncontrolled feeling) It’s an entirely hyper-reflex, completely self-controlled act. It leads to an ecstatic abandon state, an ineffable erotic bliss that, once installed, makes itself heard deep down to the most intimate parts of your being, 2-3 days after the experience
Limited erotic availability due to the exhaustion caused by loosing energy through semen ejaculation on men and explosive discharge on women. It leads to a wear out, sleepy state and even to repulsion one to the other or to oneself Unlimited erotic availability that makes possible an erotic experience that lasts 8-10 hours in a row (IF BOTH LOVERS CONTROL THEIR SEXUAL ENERGY TOTALLY). Their erotic vitality, instead of diminishing, amplifies itself and an inner total power state and a complete sexual satisfaction appear
Motion Moments of immobility alternating with slow waves to which the other responds tenderly and greedy, in a harmonious atmosphere
Fear, sometimes unconscious, of unwanted pregnancy. This fear leads to using birth – control pills that cause frustration and hormonal disturbance in time Complete freedom of any restrictions or awkward tensions, making perfectly possible a healthy, exuberant erotic manifestation
Attachment for the other, selfish desire Detachment, desire turned into non – desire. They lead to a feeling of reconciliation with yourself and also to a state of happiness that you feel and give to the other through your gentility and gratitude
The descent of consciousness at the instinctual level of the human being during orgasm The awaking of your hidden mental potential, the sharpening of your lucidity, the amplifying of your concentration power, the intuition of your spirit
Unexpected, unavailing loosing of great quantities of sexual energy leads to a diminished mental and psychical potential and thus the affective feeling is a lot blurred and its intensity is diminished sensibly; plus you feel it somehow harder to think Because of the transmutation and of the total sublimation of lovers’ sexual force into other forms of energy the psycho – mental power is amplified a lot, during the sexual intercourse and a long time after it (2 – 3 days in a row). It determines the awakening of your latent para – psychological capacities (telepathy, premonition, clear-sightedness etc.); an overwhelming state of euphoria appears; your vitality is a lot increased and gets to the diminishing of your need to sleep; your intellectual power is bigger than normally; your thought is full of a creative and extremely lucid fantasy; there’s a special erotic availability without the smallest sign of exhaustion. After 8 – 10 hours of erotic experiences your strength is even more intense than it was at the beginning and your sexual appetite is unlimited and undiminished. The man’s virility and the woman’s femininity are amplified.

Of course that you will say: “OK. I understood the difference between usual orgasm and total successive orgasm without ejaculation but how can I learn to practice sexual continence?” Our answer is: “You will learn to practice sexual continence step by step through our site. We will give you all the information necessary for one to practice sexual continence. All that you have to do is to apply the techniques and to be patient in order to reap the fruits of practising”

Become the Cosmic Couple – Brahma and Saraswati




Brahma, The Creator, wanted it to be that way and thus he created the Principle of the Universe; the Primary Energy came out from him and the Mind came out from this energy. Then there were the subtle elements and from them the multitude of worlds. Finally, from this world’s humans’ actions came the chain of cause and effect.”

Mundaka Upanishad


In order to progress on the love path and to complete oneself, the human has to adopt an inner creative attitude, which means a positive mental attitude. This has to express the dynamic of life and has to spring out from an ideal, a purpose in life.

Such an attitude is better called and categorized as “the cosmic optimism”. It consists in recognizing and identifying oneself with the primary energy that created everything. The creative attitude gives us an advantage because it gives the possibility to contact the source of our own being, along with the unlimited capacity of spiritual evolving.

This attitude has to put a mark on our behaviour every moment and to be the pillar that we lean on in the every day life. It means trust, the recognition of the Divine in each and every one of us, the belief that we are the embodiments of some superior principles that we can only reach by spiritual knowledge.

The creative attitude is itself a part of the evolution process.
The worldly, physical boundaries can be easily overcomed by approaching such a creative attitude and by applying it with wisdom.

Foe example, in the same way there have been notable successes in commerce. The ones involved in this kind of activity can mobilize so that they imagine they are full of beneficial, attractive energy. It makes an unbeatable barrier for doubts and negative emotions.

As far as the Tantric sexuality is concerned there are so many barriers that have to be overcomed. And a bracing, creative attitude is also the one that works wonders by eliminating a lot of doubts, uncertainties. It works, at the same time, as a great virility force.

Impotence and sexual frustration are direct effects of lack of sincerity and affective openness. It will finally lead to a feeling of inner emptiness. For these people life has no meaning.

By looking up to high spiritual ideals all the time we will feel full of a creative attitude and permanent creative capacity. Gayety and a contagious good mood will open doors to wonderful possibilities for you.

And when such a state appears while making love with sexual continence there will be incredible types of wonderful feelings and emotions in your lives.

“Saraswati, Brahma’s spouse, shines even more then the light of ten million moons. The celestial fire is purifying her jewels. She is the Mother of the Vedas; she is the Nature itself and the Master of Arts and Science. Sarawasti is smiling all the time and she is unbelievably beautiful. Her body is covered with a lot of jewels and pearls.”

Saraswati Stotra


Brahma is the name of the creative aspect (face) of the Divine. His symbol is the golden egg or the aura. In Tantric cosmology Brahma represents the embodiment of the entire creation. Because he governs all destinies and things in the world it is very important and necessary for you to “become Brahma” or that “Brahma to be in your favour”.

Eastern teachings say that you can become a certain thing by identifying with it. Thus, by identification, the power of creativity is in your hand at any time.

By seeing the identity between your own being and creation there is a new conscience that radiates from the “centre” of the Golden Egg. An efficient technique of identification with Brahma and with the universal creative energy is that of imagining and visualizing yourself as surrounded by an aura in the shape of an egg, shining, golden-yellow or by an aura full of positive energy; imagine how bright rays, full of warmth and force go from this aura and spread around lightning and feeding the life.

The senses are Creativity’s instruments. Their origin is in the inner subtle Brahma’s domain. They have their manifestations in the physical reality and you know them as the organ of senses: the eyes, the nose, the mouth, the ears and the skin. Esoteric tradition considers the mind to be the instrument of a sixth sense.

Saraswati is the name that Hindi people gave to the feminine counterpart of Brahma. She is seen as “The Master of the 64 Arts” from which the art of loving is considered as first and the most important. The feminine energy or the Shakti represents the Creator’s power.

Without it there is no creation. Thus Brahma and Saraswati make the inseparable Cosmic Couple, as well as the Creative Aspect and the Creative Energy. This dual principle belongs to every creation act. The unity between these two primary principles is a very important thing in the Tantric erotic game.

When the two lovers identify themselves with these high ideals all the aspects in relation with their intimate relationship take the form of extremely important and profound significance. This thing is extremely important in the Art of loving.

Saraswati’s Symbol is an Indian musical instrument with seven strings known as Vina. The shape of this instrument makes you think of a woman’s body and the sound that it produces is just like a wonderful voice. Vina represents the “senses’ instrument”, Brahma’s pleasure. By playing this instrument Saraswati expresses her joy that no one has ever seen before.

The seven strings of Saraswati’s instrument symbolize Nature structured in its evolution: the seven rays of creation, or the natural order of the transformations that we see all around us.

In science we can find this division to seven in the periodical chemical elements table. In music there are seven notes in the scale; the ray of light divides into seven basic colours and there are also seven evolutionary stages in the Tantric theory. This principle of seven belongs also to the esoteric literature.

Both Brahma and Saraswati must be visualized with a golden light shining through. Just like the sun they spread a blissful, creative light, filled with energy. By identification with these superior Truths, any couple can advance a lot on the Tantric path.

This identification supposes that there is a specific, abstract meditation and an interior special power. By becoming “Brahma and Saraswati” the Tantric couple will be able to evoke the archetype that created them and that defines them.

“Except for Brahma, who is the Supreme Self, there is only space. Besides space there is the air. Besides air there is fire. Besides fire there is water. Besides water there is the earth. Besides earth there is vegetation. Besides vegetation there is food. Besides food there is the body and there is also the entire humanity.”

Taittiriya Upanishad


“When there is a complete identification with Saraswati, all 64 arts become immediately known. Saraswati is the Mother of the four Vedas, the Auspicious Goddess.”

Saraswati Stotra


“Brahma initiated the process of creation. After dividing itself into a man and a woman these two made love. Thus appeared the entire category of mortals.”

Shiva Purana



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Fundamental Techniques of Erotic Massage: Kneading

Kneading addresses the deeper tissues and especially the muscles. It consists in getting the grip of the muscles and other deeper tissues and lifting them up, according to the elasticity of ones muscles and tissue and squeezing them between the fingers or fingers and palms through pressure in the deeper

1. Kneading in folds: This is what we may actually call a traditional method, as it applies on both wide and plat areas, and on the segments (arm, forearm, thigh, and shank).

You may vary on the pressure and on the length of the segment to grip on one time. Thus, you will recourse to a smaller grip (between the fingers), the medium grip (between the fingers and the palm), and the large grip (between the tips of the fingers).

The most common of these is the kneading in fold with medium grip: the fold of muscles and tissue is squeezed by the grip formed by the fingers and palm
of the hand, compressing the tissue with the palms, and benefiting from the pressure it puts on the deeper tissues.

Repeat the movement several times on the same place, and then move your hands longitudinally and transversally in the neighboring areas.

2. On plane surfaces, such as the back, and on the areas with a lot of flesh, such as the hips, get a grip of a long fold of muscles, with the fingers and the palms.

Get this grip tight, raise it and then press it on the deeper levels, without letting go of it.

After working on such a smaller area, move on to a neighboring part, until the entire back of hip is thoroughly massaged. This is the so-called wave

Of course, you will use this technique only if the elasticity of the skin and tissue allows it.

3. On the level of the circular segments, besides the traditional fold kneading there are also two special forms: circular kneading and winding kneading.

For both forms, get a grip of the tissue with a circular grip, with both hands. The circular kneading is done as follows: place both hands on the surface to be knead (in “bracelet” or “in ring”).

The muscles are caught between the fingers and the palms, and now this thing is done alternating the pressure on the right hand and on the left hand.

In both cases, the muscles will be pressed on the support plane, only that after each movement the pressure is weaker, and the muscles are relaxed.

The pressure force can be middle or small, according to the muscle volume and resistance.

The circular and winding kneading are done in the reversed sense in which the lymph and the blood normally circulate. For instance, in the case of the
feet, do this technique from the ankles to the thighs.

4. Another technical possibility of doing this type of massage is to use the fists on the buttocks or thighs.

5. In the abdominal area there is a special technique, besides the fold kneading we just described. Use the sides of your hands to massage this area without disturbing the energies involved in digestion.

All these kneading techniques are known and practiced for a long time.

1. Kneading favors the deep circulation and the elimination of the toxins.

2. Kneading keeps the muscles fit, preventing the appearance and manifestation of muscular atrophies.

3. Squeezing the muscles develops mechanically the elasticity, preventing the appearance of muscular breaking, as a consequence of sudden contractions.

4. Other muscular properties, such as elasticity, contractility, and conductibility are thus physiologically stimulated.

5. The above-mentioned are the explanation for the recovery of weakness, atrophy, and muscular insufficiency caused by prolonged immobility,
traumatisms, or by some muscular affections through massage, and especially through kneading.

Fundamental Techniques of Erotic Massage: Battement

The battement manoeuvres applied on the skin and soft tissues of the body are the most exciting techniques of massage.

They derive from “whipping with small branches” technique, which is the massage applied after steam baths, since the oldest times.

These manoeuvres are performed either mechanically or manually. They consist in applying rhythmical strokes with various parts of the hand.

The battement techniques are grouped in:
1. Rattling manoeuvres – which can be done using the sides of the palms, the fingers, or the inferior third of the forearms.

2. Treading manoeuvres – which can be done using either the palm and the fingers held so as to form a cup, or a dipper (treading “in cup”, “in cupping glass” or “in dipper”), or with the fist (the palm or
the sides)

3. Splashing manoeuvres

4. Percussion manoeuvres

1. The rattling manoeuvres are the most known and most used. A first form is the tangent rattling using the fingers.

For this technique, bring the elbows close to the trunk, palms out front, and the tips of the fingers “fall” perpendicularly on the surface of the skin.

This is the finest form of rattling, applied on the sensitive areas such as the abdomen and face. This is a surface manoeuvre, without getting to the deeper areas of the body.

It requires a lot of mobility and suppleness from the part of the masseur.

Another rattling variant is the “whipping with small branches” technique. For this, spread the elbows from the trunk, the fingers slightly bent and spread; the fingers touch the skin at a small distance from one another, in an alert rhythm, stroking with their lateral-dorsal sides.

When stroking the skin and when hitting themselves, the fingers produce a certain characteristic sound, similar with “whipping with small branches”.

Yet another rattling manoeuvre is done with the side of the palms. In this case, the elbows are close to the trunk, palms out front. The massage of this region is done with the side of the palm. This is a more incisive manoeuvre.

In the variants of rattling with the tips of the fingers, using the sides of the palms, the fingers, or the inferior third of the forearms, the arms need to stay close to the trunk, and the forearms need to stay close to the massaged area, so that the strokes are not too high or too powerful.

The intensity of the strokes needs to be reduced when applying the strokes on a sensitive area or tissue, and it needs to be medium or even high when applying the strokes on large muscles or thick layers of less sensitive tissues.

The rhythm usually indicated for rattling is very alert, but in certain areas – for instance the head – it can be also done slowly.

2. The treading manoeuvres are done with the fingers close to one another and the palms forming a cup (treading “in cup”, “in cupping glass” or “in dipper”), or with the fist.

The treading in cup is less harsh, and because of the air compressed between the palm and the skin, the strokes cause a special muffled sound.

The treading with the fist is a powerful manoeuvre, indicated especially in the muscular and less sensitive areas (thighs, buttocks) of strong, healthy

There are 2 variants: treading with the fist (when the fingers are closed into the palm, and they massage the skin) and treading with the lateral of the fist (with the fist closed, stroke with the side). These manoeuvres are a bit tougher.

Less tougher are the treading manoeuvres done with the fist partially closed, so that between the fingers and the palms there still is a small space, ensuring the elasticity.

Fundamental Techniques of Erotic Massage: Vibrations

These manoeuvres consist in impressing the tissue with a large number of oscillatory movements per the unity of time.

They perform small dislocations of the skin, and tissue, as well as various undulant pressures. These manoeuvres can be applied manually or with the help of certain machines named vibrators.

The vibrating movements are similar to a continuous trembling and result from the alternative contractions of the muscles of the arm, palm, and fingers.

In the case of manual vibrations, there is a large scale of techniques: manoeuvres done with the tips of the fingers, with the palm of the hand, with the hand, with the fingers, with the fist.

The mechanical, rhythmical and uniform vibrations can be adjusted in terms of the frequency and amplitude of oscillations, in rapport with the size of the area to be massaged, with the thickness and sensitivity of the tissues on
smaller areas, on a short, medium or long interval of time.

The fine and long manoeuvres are claming, reducing the skin and superficial tissues sensitivity causing a sensation of numbness, warmth and relaxation.

The ampler and more powerful manoeuvres determine an activation of the deeper local circulation, which is exteriorized in cutanat hyperthermia.

The vibrations are combined with the softening, friction and pressure manoeuvres, contributing to the increase of their efficiency.

Their effect is calming, relaxing and decongesting, reason for which their are indicated in the treatment of both painful and congestive affections of the internal organs, of the lesions accompanied by muscular contractions, and in the case of psychic tensions.

The mechanical vibrations done in a rapid rhythm with increased amplitude have a double effect, preventing the deposit of the adipocites, concomitantly with their mobilization from the fat.

Therefore, these methods are indicated in the treatment of cellulite and obesity.

A larger look on the effects of the principal massage manoeuvres gives us reasons to say that they are reflected mainly on the blood circulation.

Through the same massage techniques the sympathetic system acts on the veins from the striate muscle, in a vas-dilatation sense as a consequence of the predominance of the beta receptors from the vascular wall.

The energetical massage manoeuvres determine also the activation of acetyl-coline, which is the chemical mediator between the terminal parasympathetic fibres and the sympathetic and parasympathetic ganglionar
fibres, responsible for a peripheral dilatation in a first stage, so that after it contributes to the appearance of the compensatory adrenosympathic
reactions, which release adrenaline.

These are only some of the complex intimate reactions generated by a simple massage. The detailed effects we just mentioned refer to the arterial circulation and only the implication of the nervous system in the peripheral
vascular adjustments is capable of explaining their persistence in time.

The beneficial influences of the massage are also reflected on the content of the blood vessels: thus, a massage session will be followed by a slight increase in the haemoglobin as well as of the number of leucocytes and haematites.

These modifications are explained through the reflex stimulation of the organs and the mobilization of the blood from the deposit organs.

Before Beginning Erotic Massage

In the following we will introduce you to the roles of the masseur and the receiver of the massage, as well as the most comfortable positions during the massage.

In order to properly receive a massage all you need is the will to accept and the desire to enjoy your lovers gift to you.

Your capacity of allowing your lover to have full control during the massage will govern your capacity to receive pleasure. Be ready to accept the form or the model the massage will take.

This does not mean that you have to continue with the massage, if you find an unpleasant or disturbing aspect of the massage. Keep your right to say “stop” at any time, if you find it necessary.

Also, keep in mind that the massage is meant to enhance your sensitivity to ecstatic, enlightening experiences. For some people, this beatitude can be difficult to stand. No matter what you do, make sure you enjoy your body.


When your lover receives a massage, he or she needs to have the spine straight and relaxed. For the first part of the massage, the preparation and the front, your lover will lay on the back. In order to be relaxed and comfortable, and to have the spine relaxed and straightened, it may be useful a rolled blanket underneath the knees and a small pillow under the head.

Make sure that your lovers legs are stretched, not crossed (definitely avoid that!) and symmetrically placed. Verify if his or her body is stretched and the head aligned with the spine and feet.

For the back, when your lover will be facing down, it is recommendable that you placed a rolled blanket under his ankles, as this will lift his legs and will ease the pressure on the knees.

For the face-up position, roll a small blanket and place it under the knees so that the spine is relaxed. Also, place a small pillow under the head. For the face-down position, use a small rolled blanket under the ankles to ease the pressure of the knees.


As the masseur, do your best to free your mind of any sexual reward. Devote yourself to the operation of healing, and empty your mind, so that you can be a vessel filled with Gods healing energy, transmitted through your hands. Your purpose is to serve, heal or give pleasure.

In order to give your lover a sensual massage you need to feel fine, and natural. Sitting or standing, straighten your spine and relax your shoulders. Breathe deeply, slowly and regularly.

You do not need to spend extra energy or make any special efforts. All you need is enough energy to keep the form of your arms. The more you relax your body, the more Gods harmonizing and healing energies will flow to your hands and from here to your lover.

Make sure that the starting point and then all the rest of the movements come from your inferior abdomen. Let your hands be simple instruments to transmit the energy of love. Almost all the essence needs a cursive, gentle touch, as you walk your hand over the water.

Moving your hands freely over your lovers body you will direct the flow of the energy to the sexual center. While you do this, your lover may experience a tremendous state of sexual arousal, located in the area of the genitalia and of the abdomen.

If you feel that you or your lover are to aroused, stop and place your hands in one of the pause positions so that the energetic circulation will slow down, and your lover does not perceive the same sexual rush.

Synchronize your breath with that of your lover, to help the relaxation process focus all your awareness in your palms, then inhale and exhale together with your lover.

Although this may seem way too simple to you, the results are amazing and surprising. When you feel more peaceful and balanced, you can start again the massage and transmission of the sexual energy.

A well-done massage will reflect the transfer of the energy to such a degree that your lover will feel complete and fulfilled.


During the massage, you will sit on your heels. You might discover that your knees and shanks might hurt. In this case, place a rolled blanket between your heels and buttocks. Focus on your own spine, torso and head. The spine should be straight as much as possible. The upper part of the chest and back is wide open, with the shoulders and armpits relaxed.

Fundamental Techniques of Erotic Massage: Softening

The movements used in the manual massage – known as manual techniques – are very numerous and varied. Some masseurs modify and combine old methods or try to create new movements to impress through their diversity and complexity.

The massage techniques have suggestive names according to the type of the movement or its influence on the tissues.

According to the effects of the organism, the massage techniques have been divided in two great groups:
1. Main or fundamental techniques

2. Secondary, helping, or completion techniques

They are named main or fundamental because regardless of the characteristic of the area they work on, they are indispensable from the massage session. Working the soft parts of the body is methodical, one after the other, from the surface to the depths.

The sequence of the five fundamental techniques is the following:

1. the softening (effleurage)

2. the friction

3. the kneading

4. the battement

5. the vibrations

They are called secondary because they complete the action of the main, fundamental techniques. The secondary techniques are usually intertwined among the fundamental ones. Some of the secondary techniques derive from the fundamental ones, and come to complete the basic techniques.

The most important secondary techniques are:

1. sifting and rolling

2. pressures

3. tractions and tensions

4. shaking

5. pinching


This technique normally targets the teguments. It consists of rhythmical, soft sliding over the body, applied either with the back of the hands or with the palms, in the sense of back-turning blood flow of the venal and capillary blood-vessels and in the sense of the blood flow of the lymph in the space and lymphatic vessels.


The initial, introductory softening – is named like this because any massage session will begin with this technique. The variations it allows range from long, lingering gliding of the hands up to short and more vigorous movements.

However, keep in mind that this is an erotic massage. The rhythm and the intensity of the work will grow gradually, as the movements have a stimulating character. They aim to “warm up” the receiver for the next techniques.

The final softening should be performed in the very end of the massage session. It has the following characteristics: the rhythm and intensity will decrease gradually, so the effect will be calming and relaxing.

The succession of the movements will be reversed from those of the introductory softening – the masseur will start with short vigorous movements and will end with long lingering movements.

The massage should be circular, in the sense that it should begin and end with the same technique.

The rhythm of the gliding should be a bit faster than the flow of blood through the veins. As we indicated in the definition of the softening, their sense is determined by the superficial blood circulation or the return of the blood in the veins through the capillary veins, and the flow of the lymph in the spaces and lymphatic vessels.

Thus, the gliding on the arms and legs will be from the extremities to the joint point with the body. On the trunk, the gliding follows the sense of the circulation towards the heart. On the throat and neck the movements are from the head to the shoulders and shoulder blades.

The softening is performed with:
The fingers – use the tips of the fingers. This technique is addressed mainly to small round surfaces.

The palms or the back of the hand – the fingers may be either spread or held together. It is applied to plane, straight surfaces, such as the back.

The pressure of the movements will be superficial and it will be exercised strictly on the nervous endings and vessels of the skin. When you desire to act more forcibly on the blood circulation in the deeper tissues, especially in the muscles, you need to use stronger methods, performed with:

the hands

the exterior sides of the hands

the fists

Consequently, in the softening methods, the pressure applied is adjusted to the nature and consistency of the tissues and especially to the needs of the person receiving the massage.

Fundamental Techniques of Erotic Massage: Friction

The softening is a surface manoeuvre, addressing mainly the derma and epidermis. The friction addresses mainly the subcutanate tissue, represented by the hypoderm.

In some parts of the body, the subcutanate tissue also contains muscles. For instance, at the face and neck, where the hypoderm is slightly present, the action in the massage through friction acts also on the facial muscles.

The friction consists in the pressure applied to the soft subcutanate tissues on the profound strata, or on a tough plane (bones or cartilages) and in their moving in the limits of their own elasticity.

We can do the friction using:
the tips of the fingers

the face or the back of the hand

the fist – the nodes of the fist

On small portions use the tips of the three middle fingers: the index, the middle finger and the ring finger

On larger portions – the manoeuvres will be done using the sides of the palms, the entire palm or the fists.

On very large portions: work with both palms and fingers spread

According to the sensitivity of certain segments or areas, we will keep in mind the following:

On sensitive portions we will apply the friction with the thicker and softer part of the palm,
on the larger, less sensitive parts of the body we will work using the closed fist.

On the small areas we will apply the friction using one hand, and on a large ones using both hands, simultaneously and symmetrically.

The sense of applying the friction is different, according to the anatomical particularities of each segment. The movements may be circular or ellipsoidal.

On the ligaments, and tendons, the sense of the friction is linear and the friction will consist in short and rhythmical come-and-go-movements.

The Achilles tendon will be fractioned using the “clench” technique, either with the thumb and index or the sides of both hands.

Another sense of applying the friction refers to a particular case, the “undulate” or zigzag friction which is required down the spine, descending from the neck to the buttocks.

After the intensity applied, the friction is divided into: superficial, medium, and profound.

The pressure can increase or decrease at any moment. We accentuate the pressure of the manoeuvre inclining the fingers or the hand or applying the free hand over the other, to add to the pressure.

Dose the intensity of the pressure after the sensitivity of the skin and tissue and most importantly taking into account your lovers indications. Be gentle on the sensitive areas and vigorous on the less sensitive ones.

From a methodical point of view, the friction is simple when applied with the fingers, sides of the hands, palms, etc. on small areas of the body. It is also stimulating for the nervous central system and for the peripheral nervous system, when applied in a fast rhythm. In the therapeutic activity this method is applied as either stimulating or calming method.

Simple Ways of Beginning a Relationship According to the Zodiac, 6

We are now at the end of the Zodiac. The last four signs are the most serious and philosophical. We need attention to understand and approach these signs. Let’s proceed:

The native from this zodiacal sign is generally a very friendly and jovial person and from this point of view it is very easy to begin a friendship with him, unless you are a pessimistic person or too reticent in your relationships with the others.

He is not the person to annoy you if you don’t show him openly you want to communicate with him, because for him the principle of individual liberty is very important and he will not interfere with you against your will.

But pay attention not to do the mistake of misinterpret his general open-disposition and open-mindedness with a special affectivity pointed to your person, because the Sagittarius has the tendency to treat the others, even when first meeting them, as if they were friends for years, being very warm and kind.

This doesn’t mean that he loves you, but only that he generally loves people and what life offers to him. He likes very much travelling, meeting new people, seeing new places, new countries.

If you are a person very attached to your house and to your intimity, he is not the person you need, because his ideal is one of perpetual moving and changing of the surroundings, and, due to his adaptability, he will feel at ease everywhere and with almost everybody.

When approaching a Sagittarius it is very important to be prepared for all kind of surprises, because he doesn’t like the persons who are rigid in their expectations in a relationship. Your life with a Sagittarius can seem an expedition and you have to be always prepared to assume the risk of a new adventure.

He likes animals very much and he wouldn’t be delighted to find out that you hate his pets and that you don’t care about the ecological issues.
He also likes philosophy and he doesn’t appreciate the persons who don’t have an ideal in their lives.

For him, the idea of liberty is very important and he can’t stand being controlled. You would rather not try to impose him a program or ask him to swear about doing something, unless you want to make him get away in a great hurry.

He has his principles, which guide his life, and if you interfere with them he will disappear, and is not specific to him to come back.

If you want to please him, you can invite him to a journey or simply to a walk in the middle of the nature. You can also bring him to your country house even if it is a very unsophisticated one, or if you don’t have one, you can invite him to a horse racing!

In spite of his superficial disposition, he can prove to be very faithful if you gain his respect by letting him free and trusting him, because he is in fact an honest person.

If you want to attract this native, you should be sincere, optimistic, dynamic, communicative, to have a good sense of humor and to fully enjoy life.

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