Mental Concentration During Lovemaking, Part 2

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CONCENTRATE YOUR ATTENTION ON THE SENSES
As much as we focus ourselves on our own sensations and experiences, they become in this way more and more refined; we start to perceive all the senses at once, without thinking about them in a mechanical way. Thus, the sensations will be totally perceived as if we listen a symphony of life.

Feeling more and more often and profound the non-discursive experience of the sensations, we understand that we have this capacity and it is natural. Only the inner dialogue and the mental excitation interfere, hiding that direct and simultaneous ecstatic conscience of the all senses.

At this step, the direct perception makes the pure subjectivity become identical with the pure objectivity and in this way there is no longer any difference between them, there is no longer any duality neither in perception, neither in sensation nor between the lovers. In this way the lovemaking gets an exceptional cosmic and spiritual value.

THE TOUCH

We have to empathetically experience what the lover feels while we touch her/him with our hands, caressing her/him with love, or doing anything else that is mutual accepted by both lovers, feeling in this moment what she/he likes or not.

We can feel the entire body, with all our body while we happily and lovely hug our lover, amplifying at maximum the intensity of the hug. As much as we concentrate more easily at the direct perception of the sensations, we will experience more various sensations in the entire body.

In this way, we will be able to experience with an ecstatic happiness the active and passive aspects of the touch, feeling in the same time, every caress, every point of contact with the lover, every given or received caress.

So we can feel what the lover experiences while we touch her/him. We will be surprised by the fact that we can perceive our lover’s sensations through our own hands or other body parts.

We can focus our attention either over the feeling experienced by the one that is touched, or over our feelings, or we can perceive both sensations in the same time.

The active and the receptive touch are identical experiences in essence; moreover when the merging of the lovers is amplified. The way in which the lover feels when she/he is touched is not different from the sensation felt by us through our hand, because there is a communication that gives birth to the same language.

The important element is to experience directly these states without saying, “it is soft, it is wet or hard” and by not letting any other comments, that can shadow the direct perception, interfere.

THE TASTE

The taste sense is very well harmonized with the touch sense and with the smelling.
It is known that there is compatibility between the tastes of the lovers, and it is realized that this compatibility influences very much the sexual compatibility. The taste sense is connected with the subtle sexual centre of the human being – Svadhisthana Chakra, and that is why the taste’s compatibility of the lovers reflects their sexual compatibility; an amplifying of the tasting sensations immediately leads to awakening and accumulating sexual energy.

THE SMELL

Through the smell sense can be felt either by ourselves, or together with out lover, we will enchant our natural perfume together with the added perfume, taking also into account the perfume of the soap, of the shampoo, of the room and also the perfume of the air.

It is important to know how to choose the perfumes and the essences that can accompany us in our erotic games, so that we can be magnetically attracted by the savour of our body smelling or of the smelling of the atmosphere created by us.

THE SEEING

The visual sense is also very important because the eye perceives in semi-darkness too, often even with more profound echoes in the human being- the colours, the forms, the clothes, the brightness and the reflection of the bodies, of the hair or of the ornaments.

Often, during lovemaking the face becomes brighter being itself an expression of the happiness, of the generosity and of the ecstatic fulfilment.

While we are watching, we let the images come to our eyes and we spontaneously abandon ourselves in perceiving all that is in our visual field, without identifying each thing. Our eye can be fixed anywhere it wants to. It is the case of staring (keeping the eyes open but without seeing) that constitute the magical and intimate frame of where we are making love.

Then we can fix our eye over a detail, that becomes dear, important and saint, and at the end we will be back to the seeing of the all. Then we can focus our attention at something else, by spontaneously sending it the magnetism of our look.

THE HEARING

There is no limit in what we can create or feel during the erotic game. Each of these generates a sensation, a reaction, and an emotion that doesn’t need a future description.

The sounds emitted by each of them, the breathing, the laughter, the groan, the noise of the lips and the tongue, the voice music when there is something to be said, the love whispers, all of these can amplify the erotic desire and experience.

We can feel the silent vibrations of our bodies that are hungrily touching each other as much as they are hugging full of love and harmony. In this way we become receptive to those pure, archetypal, divine sounds without needing to analyse their meaning. We simply hear them as a celestial music that brings happiness. In this way, we permit the sound to penetrate our ears without needing to comment on it.

 

PART 1

Meditation and Lovemaking, Part 1

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The relationship between the physical act of making love and meditation is not necessarily obvious at a first glance, but it is nonetheless real and extraordinarily powerful. If the act of lovemaking is approached as a mystical experience, it becomes indeed a form of yoga or meditation.
The implication of this statement is that a total absorption of the mind in the true, direct experience of love occurs between two people who really love each other, during an act of love.

In fact, it truly is an active and creative act, which fulfils the being on multiple levels (physical, psychic, mental and spiritual as well).

So, just like meditation, the act of making love without being involved in thoughts concerning the experience or any other things is what the Eastern tradition recommends in order to be able to reach a mystical experience in this manner. The fundamental key to succeed in transforming a common approach to sexuality into a mystical, elevated experience is to allow yourself to extricate your habitual thoughts during the sensual act of lovemaking.

MEDITATION AND SEXUALITY
The mental integration through sexuality in form of meditation is not different from specific yoga techniques. In fact, this approach should dictate our attitude in any kind of activity: eating, sleeping, breathing, cooking, walking, watching, making love, etc. It is also true that a meditative attitude attracts a lot of unbelievable results.

In fact, when we limit the discursive thinking processes we give our latent subconscious capacities the possibility to fully manifest themselves.

It gives our experiences great energy and at the same time a greater capacity to control this energies, not trough the rational mind, but through that super-conscious force, the expression of will and divine harmony reflected into the pure mirror of our consciousness, clear and untroubled by rational thinking, which is limiting, personal and egoistic.

Consequently, in order to turn an erotic experience into a spiritual one, one should try to stop what is usually termed as “rational thinking”. You may ask “why would I do that?” and the question would be reasonable!
The answer is because this kind of thinking known as “rational thinking” is limited and also sets limits to your experiences. And, as you may easily guess, one cannot know the infinite by being limited to the finite!
It is highly important that you stop this kind of reasoning for a while, still, simply setting the subconscious forces, sensations and experiences free is not really a mystical state. A mystical experience occurs generally when the erotic energy is sublimated and refined. The Super-Consciousness plays the most important role here, because it enlightens us and our experiences.

That is is also the reason for the great importance of another element – termed as transfiguration. This implies the active, real and creative belief in a certain “pattern” or divine archetype against the dark and shapeless background of the subconscious world. To be more clear, when being with or thinking about your lover (and you may extend the experience) see in him/her this divine archetype you have in your heart.

To see the god or the goddess beyond the ordinary image of the one you love, to unite with what he/she has sublime, this is transfiguration. Such a relationship leads to an elevated world and helps us experience the erotic act in the form of meditation. Through transfiguration the human is endowed with divine virtues.

HOW TO APPROACH EROTIC EXPERIENCES
In order to experience the spiritual ecstasy while we make love with sexual continence, traditional Eastern literature recommends that we eliminate our thoughts. Tantrism states that we have to open up to sexuality and approach it with “an empty mind”, a state called “the absence of mind” or “the pure mind”.

This recommendation has often been interpreted the wrong way, ad literam. If one does not examine this statement intelligently, he/she might believe that people who have had mystical experiences suspend their mental activity in order to remain in that state where they shut up for the rest of the world and go away from life.

However, the real sense of this recommendation is to stop a certain way of thinking, the rational, verbal, conceptual, theoretical one or in other words the one that evaluates and places things on a certain scale, with a certain label, based on logical representations.

This way of thinking makes each experience, perception or sensation be immediately labeled, expressed through words and given a philosophical, moral, positive or negative sense.
It is also associated with the left cerebral hemisphere and first it takes the form of an inner soliloquy.

In fact this way of thinking (so specific to our contemporary times) is not encouraged by ancient mystical writings, which even contain methods to minimize it in order to reach a state of balance and harmony between the two sides of the brain, the left one, logical, rational, discursive and the right one, intuitive, creative and esthetical.

When the intercourse practiced with sexual continence blocks the verbal way of thinking we become more conscious of what is really going on. We feel “we drink from the Fountain of Life”. That’s why Tantric tradition encourages us to live fully and directly any experience and thus to participate actively and creatively to the erotic fusion.

Thus we become more conscious and surrounded by that experience, without even trying to describe it in words while it lasts. During a Tantric erotic fusion lovers are a lot more aware of themselves because they do not think (as we normally conceive this term), but they allow themselves to be carried away by the natural flow. They do not allow experiences to be filtered through the limited “screen” of a soliloquy.

Any superior integration of an experience implies a capacity to contract and keep in mind several aspects of a problem. It is a lot more valuable than to analyze it piece by piece, in time. The possibility to perceive reality on different levels, from a cosmic perspective, is obviously the attribute of a human with a superior level of consciousness, capable of viewing reality from different angles. Thus a thing or a phenomenon may be analyzed from a vital, creative, sexual, volitional, affective, intuitive, mental or spiritual point of view.

Just like meditation, the erotic experience allows us to perceive things in a creative and intuitive way. Without describing each and every sensation and without thinking, “Oh, this feels good” or “I am in a very elevated state”, we can freely enjoy our experiences.

During the Tantric erotic game man and woman are open to sensations, they go deep into themselves and do not evaluate them, they just fully experience them. It is obvious that rational thinking remains integrated in the complex structure of such a state, but the mind is now capable of perceiving everything around without any kind of effort.

PART 2

Jealousy Has Nothing To Do With Love, Part 2

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PART 2
YOUR LOVER IS JEALOUS WITH YOU?
Do you really love her? Do you really care for her? Talk to her and let her know your feelings. Be close to her. Do not let her make the first move in the right direction alone.

She is hurt, isn’t she? Or at least this is how she feels. Have you never experienced those states? Do not criticize her, do not disapprove her behavior now. Show her your love for her, and show her that she is unique for you.

Do you really realize your lover’s uniqueness? How about the uniqueness of your relationship? Each person has “something” mysterious and characteristic.

Close your eyes for a second. Can you feel your lover? Do you know it is her? How can there be comparisons then? Have you ever thought that a fresia is more beautiful than a rose? Such a question would not make any sense.

WHEN YOU LOVE, BE LOVE
Half measurements attract half measurements. Do you think she is suffering? Do all you can to make her understand that you are 100% present in her life, that you are completely fascinated by her.

Because you are, aren’t you? Understand her desires and fulfill them even before she has a chance to utter them. The joy will not linger in making itself seen on her sweet face. Where could jealousy now fit into? There is nothing worse than a common relationship.

Do you want to experience the extraordinary? OFFER IT! Be the Prince Charming in her life, the unforgettable man, the love of her life. She has been waiting for you all her life.

Act nobly and self-giving, be inventive and full of surprises. Do not get worried, she will never be bored. You can make visible your presence in her life without words, in silence, in the most unexpected and surprising ways.

Do you keep the fire of your passion alive with gestures of love and affection? Have you ever wondered what she would say if one day she comes home and finds flowers everywhere, even in the most unexpected places? In the drawer, on the pillow, in the kitchen, rose petals in the tub filled with warm and inviting water… Wouldn’t she respond with greater love to such manifestations of affection and tenderness?

AT ALL TIMES, KEEP IN MIND THAT SMALL GESTURES RESCUE GREAT LOVE-AFFAIRS.

Polarity, Part 1

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The polarity of the two types of energy (Yin and Yang) represents the key in harmonizing the flow of the energies of the human being. This is the most simple and also the fundamental secret of all authentic traditions.

It is simple because it is based on the universal law of attracting opposites, that is the positive and negative forces attract each other and are in a permanent interaction.

It is true to the degree to which the two opposing poles of two simple magnets are attached to one another, or the protons and electrons dance and compose the atom.

Yang is the fire, and Yin is the water. Man is the “fire”, the woman is the “water”. When the man makes love to a woman, he prepares the woman’s “water” with his “fire”. The profound orgasm constitutes a delicate balance of the sexual energies.

The sexual life is dominated by the above-mentioned principle of polarities. It is, however important to understand that the two types of energy are inseparable, it is in fact one energy, manifested under complementary forms.

They cannot exist one without the other, their interaction is “fluid”, and they issue from one another. Therefore, if during the erotic act performed with continence, man and woman become aware of the play of the two polarities, they have the possibility of becoming one being only.

Each of the two lovers is situated on one “side”. When the exchange of energy reaches a sphere of harmony, the two lovers vibrate in the rhythm of one heart.

The feeling of having a physical body disappears, all one feels now is a huge energy, vibrating as one with his/her lover. This is the profound, total orgasm of both body and soul.

Many men have the intuition of these things, but those who are actually capable to expand and go deeply into these special states of the mind are quite few, because they usually lose their sexual energy through ejaculation.

The true, profound orgasm appears when both the man and the woman vibrate in the same rhythm. Their sexual energy forms now a complete circuit, the two “opposing” poles being reunited.

This circuit is represented by the Yin and Yang symbol, emerging from one another in a perfect eternal harmony. However, the flow of the sexual energy alone cannot lead anyone to spiritual achievements in the absence of love and an appropriate mental focus.

The physical union alone is not sufficient, and therefore sex alone cannot make anybody happy. One other important aspect is that the ordinary orgasm, implying ejaculation, on which many men depend, restrains the sphere of experience and knowledge.

The profound, transfiguring erotic experiences, performed through sexual continence, go beyond/transcend the borders of ordinary individual pleasure and perception, reaching a complex level of experience.

There are couples that radiate all around profound happiness and love without practicing any esoteric methods of lovemaking. And there are couples that radiate even more love and happiness, live for a longer time, healthy and in harmony, because they have learned how to sublimate their sexual energy.

Will they be just as radiant, enthusiastic and blissful when they reach old age? The secret techniques of the Eastern tradition will help them reach faster an advanced level of spiritual evolution. There is no limit as regards the depth and health one may get to through love.

Asanas of Happiness, Part 2

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PART 2
THE V LETTER

A method for bringing more harmony into your couple is to perform the pose called “The V Letter”. This pose takes the exploration of the intimacy and trust even further.

Hold your lover’s wrists and lean towards the back, trying to reach the position where you are balanced. Arch your back and come out of this pose real slowly.



Focus on the energetic exchanges that occur through the arms. Perceive the activation of Swadhistana chakra, and the capacity of having highly erotic feelings.

You may take this pose even further: hold your hands in the same way and then bend your knees.



You will notice that the ability to be balanced by your lover is determined by the capacity each of you has to resonate with the other. The more you may maintain this pose, the greater is the harmony between the two of you. The practice of this pose will help you and your lover have highly erotic experiences.

VRIKASANA (THE POSE OF THE TREE)
Vrikasana will grant the couple that performs it perseveringly the capacity to focus with great love on high ideals. The two lovers will accede through their love to the superior mental level of the Universe.

HOW TO PERFORM THIS ASANA

The left side
Stand next to your lover, leaving a distance of few centimeters between you. Place your arm around your lover’s waist and set your sole on the floor so that you will have good balance. Your lover should do the same.

Bend the knee that is in exterior (the woman will bend the right knee, and the man will bend the left knee) and place the sole on the inner part of the thigh.

Place the palm opposite to the side where your lover is (the woman the right hand, and the man the left hand) on your lover’s palm, keeping them up to the level of the chest (see the picture). Come out of this asana slowly.

FOCUS
On the left side: perceive the activation of Anahata chakra and Ajna chakra, simultaneously. The woman perceives the activation of the receptive aspect of Ajna chakra, and the man the emissive aspect of Ajna chakra. Perceive the state of love that embraces you as well as an enhanced capacity of mental focus.

The right side
Stand next to your lover, leaving distance of few centimeters between you. Place your arm around your lover’s waist and set your sole on the floor so that you will have good balance. Your lover should do the same.

Bend the knee that is in exterior (the woman will bend the left knee, and the man will bend the right knee) and place the sole on the inner part of the thigh.

Place the palm opposite to the side where your lover is (the woman the left hand, and the man the right hand) on your lover’s palm, keeping them up to the level of the chest (see the picture). Come out of this asana slowly.

FOCUS
On the left side: perceive the activation of Anahata chakra and Ajna chakra, simultaneously. The woman perceives the activation of the emissive aspect of Ajna chakra, and the man the receptive aspect of Ajna chakra. Perceive the state of love that embraces you as well as an enhanced capacity of mental focus.

Asanas of Happiness, Part 3

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PART 3
Yoga performed together with your lover always opens up the possibility of deep, genuine communication between the two of you, and this communication bonds you closer on levels beyond the customary ones.

Yoga together with your lover may deepen your physical, erotic, psychic, mental and spiritual relationship in unbelievable ways. Doing yoga together brings harmony, refinement, beauty and utter strength to your relationship.

The relationship you’re having acts as a mirror reflecting your deepest secrets. Nonetheless, couple yoga may help you become aware of the unknown pattern manifested in your relationship and in your relationships with other people.

A beautiful relationship not only brings soul lifting to the two lovers, but also may transform for the better other people who interact with this particular couple.

If the couple also practices sexual continence, then their sphere of action may extend to an incredible number of people. Just as the light of one single candle lit in a dark room casts away the darkness, the same way true love will always radiate the light of happiness.

Even when we do not suspect it, love is the supreme law of the universe: a mysterious law, that governs and orders everything, beginning with the lifeless atom, to the union of rational beings.

All our actions and thoughts originate in this love, and to it they are drawn, as towards a divine center of irresistible attraction…
Yoga is a path of knowledge, and in the same time, a path of love and loving.

The asanas presented in the following may be performed before lovemaking as well, because they create an ineffable state of harmony between the two lovers.

The perseverant practice of these asanas – as well as of those presented in our previous articles “Asanas of Happiness” will help you and your lover evolve spiritually, and lift your souls to reach the Supreme Ultimate Freedom, together with your beloved. The heart of this yoga practice is of course – LOVE.

THE BICYCLE
Lay back and bring your knees to your chest. Press your soles against your lover’s soles. Support your weight on the lower back, as this makes your abdominal muscles work as well. Knit your fingers together and place them on the back of your neck. You may now begin pedaling.



As soon as you found an appropriate rhythm for both of you, bring your opposite elbow to the rising knee, turning your torso slightly to it.

Continue changing rising your knee and turning your torso into the opposite direction. Keep the abdominal muscles tight during the whole duration of this exercise, inhale through the nose and exhale through the mouth each time you turn your torso.

If possible, synchronize your breath with that of your lover. Perceive state of effervescence, spontaneous joy and dynamism.

USTRASANA
This asana helps you and your beloved experience a state of euphoria and empathy due to the harmony settled in between the will of your lover and your own will.

Kneel face to face, close to one another. Hold each other’s elbows and slightly bend towards the back, without tensing your neck muscles. Keep your knees at a 90-degree angle.



FOCUS

Perceive the free circulation of the energies through the arms and the activation of the solar plexus. Perceive also an inner state of euphoria and a greater impact of your couple. Perceive in the end the activation of Manipura chakra, in its most elevated aspects.

TRIKONASANA (THE TRIANGLE POSE)
Performed with your lover, Trikonasana may increase your mutual trust and confidence, and gives your relationship spiritual dynamism.

Stand with your feet apart, with your back turned to that of your lover. Spread your legs so that the angled formed is of about 90-degree, and keep your soles parallel. Stretch your arms laterally, at the level of the shoulders, keeping your hands pressed against your lovers’ palms.

The left side
Slowly lift your arms as follows: the woman her left arm, and the man his right arm, bending your torso laterally, towards the opposite side.



Maintain this position and breathe calmly, and in the same time, if possible. Stay as close to one another as you can. Come out of this asana slowly and gently.

FOCUS

Focus to perceive the energy connecting you through your arms, and the activation of the energies through the spine. Perceive also the activation of Manipura chakra, self-confidence, and trust in your lover.

The right side
Slowly lift your arms as follows: the woman her right arm, and the man his left arm, bending your torso laterally, towards the opposite side.

Maintain this position and breathe calmly, and in the same time, if possible. Stay as close to one another as you can. Come out of this asana slowly and gently.

FOCUS
Focus to perceive the energy connecting you through your arms, and the activation of the energies through the spine. Perceive also the activation of Manipura chakra, self-confidence, and trust in your lover.

Masculine Zodiac – Aquarius, Part 2

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PART 2
DO YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TO SEDUCE A AQUARIUS?
Now it is the time for a truth test. Are you really a non-conformist person as your Aquarius wants, or you are secretly scared by the romantic rebellions that say “the rules were made to be broken”?

Deep down, your Aquarius lover is this type of person and if you do not have what it takes to plug into his system, or at least to give him the big cheer he needs, you might prove too mild to capture his interest.

Next question: Are you open towards new ways of thinking in your personal life? The Aquarius has read hundreds of books on metaphysics. Just mention the word occult and you will see the sparkle in his eyes. All that is new and strange is fascinating to him, not at all scary.

Do you also have this type of tireless curiosity, or do you find that traditional ways are more comfortable, while you slip into your nightgown? Get ready for this game named “what if”. The subject may be philosophy, religion, or even the colour of your hair.

Keep in mind that this man has the sense of adventure, he knows to find and see for himself how different and exciting life can be. Only faith or chance can provide the money he needs to explore the world and its fascinating psychic as he would like to.mild

He will always dream of “what if”?. And now is the time for the Aquarius to add “what if not” to the “what if”? at this point he will start to express a different opinion from what other people usually believe and this disturbs them.

WHERE CAN YOU SEDUCE HIM?
The Aquarius man loves landscapes never touched by the mans foot, wild and perfect in their primitive beauty. The places where they often wander are the deserts. A week or a month in the south-west of the American continent is what his fantasy asks for.

You can head for the red rocks of Sedona, Arizona, and you can definitely try this place especially if you have never been here. This unbelievable landscape offers you more than a chance to feel very sensuous.

What could be better to ensure your lover of well-planned unique experiences that will touch both your souls? The magic in the earth is a magnet that will draw the two of you closer together.

HOW TO INTRIGUE AN AQUARIUS?
The Aquarius is an amateur of new experiences. And there is no better guide in erotic experiences than the Kama Sutra. In the candle-light intimacy of your bedroom or any other room of your house, play some suave music of Hindu flute and have at hand pillows and body-oil.

The thought alone of an unusual, extraordinary experience is enough for your Aquarius lover to get excited. Looking at your reflexion in the mirror, in the candle light will give your Aquarius the feeling of something forbidden.

Now it is time to take the oil and slowly rub it on your breasts while he watches you in the mirror. Rub the oil on your abdomen, go lower, in between your legs, then bend over and oil your toes and your thighs.

Next take his sensitive jewels and massage them with your oily hands. Now follows the part that separates the girls from the women who truly understand the erotic aspect of life. Take the perfume and pour a few drops on your fingers. Let your hand slide slowly in between your legs.

Spread your legs and let your intimate sensitive part come closer to his face. Support your weight on your hands and then let your body slide down, on his chest. At this point, you can touch him, like a gentle massage all over, with your precious feminity.

Do lower, on the abdomen and let the anticipation of what is about to come get all over him. Move slowly and while you feel his penis almost ready to penetrate you, go lower.

Now wrap your legs around him. Take your time; savour the moment and not necessarily the movement. In this position, the ideal would be to feel him inside of you, not only physically, but also spiritually.

The moment is almost meditative. In this position your can use your muscles to squeeze him like in a clench. In order to obtain the correct effect, you will have to try hard.

This thought alone should determine you to cancel all invitations for the following month. If you are a meticulous student, and practice real hard and dedicated, one day you will manage to obtain the correct effect and thus you can graduate and become an expert. This way you can transmute your sexual energy and then sublimate it along the spine, to the crown of the head.

Masculine Zodiac – Aquarius & Pisces

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PART 3
SHARE HIS FANTASIES

Your Aquarius lover loves the latest news, but we are not talking about latest inventions in kitchen robots. This man is thirsty for anything that will bring him new exciting sensations.

To obtain this, you need to take a walk into a shop where you never dreamed of setting foot. Your destination is one of those places where they sell black leather garments, vibrators, electric balls, and which comes first on your list is the dildo.

Although you may have never set foot into such a store, I can assure you that you have a good idea of what this means. You can tell your lover what toys you have in the closet and ask him to help you to play with it. Or you can do it yourself.

PISCES (February 20th – March 20th)
The ruling planet: Neptune. Neptune governs and inspires poetry, music, and art in general. The native of this sign has a tendency of being a little round, which does not take any of his natural charm, on the contrary.

His penis is quite impressive and seems endowed with a life of its own. Sometimes the Pisces man is considered an ideal partner maybe the only lover worthy of this name.

Ten times more generous than the Scorpion, he is capable of anything to give pleasure. He is romantic, sensitive, generous, affectionate, sensual, passionate and ardent. In him everything is erotic and erogenous.

His dream is to melt with his lover to create an unique androginal, perfect being. He prefers complete sexual encounters, satisfying from physical, psychic, mental and spiritual points of view.

He does not like passenger sexual encounters, which make him a bad customers for company agencies. The Pisces needs to feel secure and therefore he requires attention, care, and love.

He is an impressionable creator and his fantasies go far beyond what a regular person might imagine. Famous Pisces are Harry Belafonte, Ted Kennedy, Rudolf Noureyev and Rex Harrison.

The native of Pisces can be the lover we would like to have next to us for the rest of our lives, if it werent for his instability and fluctuations. The Pisces, disregarding their sex, almost never say no.

He is on an eternal quest, aspiring always for what is difficult to obtain; he may never meet the lady of his dreams, but he will surely give a lot of pleasure in his search for her.

The ideal woman: The Virgo woman will manage to inspire security to the Pisces man, more than any other woman of the zodiac does. She will have the patience and understanding to satisfy his lover from all the perspectives we mentioned above.

The Pisces man may feel attracted to the Aquarius woman as well, but there is the risk of him finding her confusing. No matter what she does to calm him down, his emotive nature added to the inherent sexual tension of such a combination may even predispose him to a difficult control over his sexual energy, maybe even premature ejaculation.

Masculine Zodiac – Scorpio, Part 1

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Ruled by Pluto, your lover belongs to the most complex water sign of the zodiac. However, before accepting to be his half, you need to make sure that he has reached maturity.

Regardless of his witness, charm, and amazing lovemaking skills, you would most surely regret immensely if your lover would be emotionally of about 12 years old. If you are lucky and your Scorpio is an evolved soul, then you have fond a man who has strikingly powerful purpose and control in his life.

Nonetheless, if he still has some karma-ic lessons to learn, you have to expect breath-taking extremes, which can lift you up to the skies and then crush you down to the ground. The saying goes that the Scorpio is either a saint or a sinner.

Think only that he is even capable of stinging himself deadly with his own needle. This example clearly shows the dangerous extremes to which your lover may get. Also, consider that a vulture symbolizes the passionate Scorpio.

Meditate on the unbelievable image of the Phoenix bird coming out and up its own ashes and regenerating. Regardless of his self-destructiveness, your Scorpio is always capable of rebirth and can spread his wings and embark into adventurous flights, even if they may seem on the verge of disaster.

Even when your lover is up in the skies or down on the ground, you should expect from him nothing less than his entire being.

You need very intense experiences in order to satisfy the Scorpios powerful appetite, and you need to be a very powerful woman in order to satisfy his hunger of love and lovemaking. By the way, did you know that the Scorpio is renowned as the sex sign?

This also means that the Scorpio will not be satisfied with a half-relationship or half-commitment from you.

If you have what it takes to satisfy a Scorpio, then be ready to give him everything. Then give him a dream, and another, and again everything it takes for him to look deeply into your eyes with that hypnotizing and breath-taking gaze.

WHAT AWAKENS HIS SENSES?

The answer to this question is a woman who does not have hesitations in her life, who is ready to taste any pleasure, any sensation, because this is what the Scorpio really wants.

Moreover, he is not an easy person to impress. You will need more than a good game to keep his attention alert to you. In addition, the Scorpios private life is very important to him. He surely appreciates a woman who can keep the intimacy of their private life for herself.

Do you think your relationship is fascinating enough to interest you? Then you should restrain from telling it to someone else. The more he will be sure he can confide in you and reveal himself to you, the more he will open up to you.

The last thing your lover wants is someone who really believes he can be changed. Do you want him to quit smoking or drinking? Do his manners really and badly need improvement? He could not iron a shirt and remove the stains on it before meeting your mom?

Well, if this is the case, do not interfere with his habits, because the Scorpio will interpret this action as a brutal attack and when he feels he is attacked, he will ferociously fight you back.

Suggest him once the changes you would like, or maybe twice, and then drop it. The moment you become a missionary, or even worse a nagging woman waiting for him at home, this is definitely be the end of your relationship.

Remember also that your lover is so secretive to the point of being mysterious. This is the image he tends to create about himself; he likes dark corners and shadowy places in which he can hide.

You will have to bite your tongue and wait until he is ready to trust you. If you try to dig to deep into the past, he will only feel frustrated, no matter how nicely you do it.

The Scorpio man is the man who belongs to one woman only. If you did not discover so far, your lover is a very jealous man and very possessive as well. He would be able to paint his initials on the insides of your thighs, if the thought would cross his mind.

He is definitely the man you just want to fool around, if you know what we mean. If you might think about flirting a little with someone else, at a party, just to make him jealous, you would better forget this idea and not play this game, because the Scorpio man will hurt you much more than you could possibly bear.

He will strike back with such accuracy, that you would think he used to be a surgeon. it is better thus to tell him that you are his lover, and that no man, regardless of his overwhelming and impressive qualities, will ever be able to get close to you.

Masculine Zodiac – Scorpio, Part 2

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PART 2
DO YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TO SATISFY A SCORPIO MAN?

If you are able to satisfy the emotional and sexual needs of a Scorpio man, then you have him at the tip of your finger. Nonetheless, it is not as easy as it may sound.

You will need to enjoy lovemaking just as much as he does, and keep in mind that for a Scorpio making love is as important as breathing, if not even more important.

He also wants a woman who is open minded to explore together in the fascinating realm of physical love, so you need to be ready to travel on unknown paths and to explore all the dark and forbidden things.

However, have no fear. Do not think that a Scorpio will be confined to the borders of your bedroom. He can make love just as passionately in the kitchen, in the bathroom, in the hallway, or in the closet.

We need to underline here the fact that for a Scorpio, what happens in your mind is just as important as the act of love itself. Unlike the Gemini man, who is often satisfied to know a little about many things, the Scorpio goes into the intellectual depths of things.

One of his strongest interests is the occult and all things connected to it. This leads him into the vast world of psychic phenomena, including telepathy, astral projections, clairvoyance, and so on. The unknown and the mysterious fascinate the Scorpio and he always wants to know why, why do all things happen?

In fact, this man wants to go deep into everything, you included.

WHERE CAN YOU SEDUCE A SCORPIO?

This may sound strange to you. Only because it really is strange. Tell your lover that you have planned a weekend away. Find a motel that has fantasy bedrooms and take him there, not only for one weekend, but also for several weekends in a row.

The Scorpio will love to seduce you in places with exotic surroundings. A white apartment, decorated for a honeymoon. In a dark and mysterious boudoir, with mirrors all over the walls. This is a perfect place for the most loving zodiacal sign and for the ever-smiling woman at his side.

HOW DO YOU CAPTURE A SCORPIO’S ATTENTION?

Let the games begin! Games of the body and soul, and most importantly of the mind…which you are about to lose, with the greatest delight of all.

Offer your lover a gambling game, a game of chance. It is up to you to deicide which game will stimulate his competitive spirit and his libido. Maybe his favorite game is darts, or poker, or scrabble, or any other game you can think of.

You will tell him that the one who looses the game will have to strip for the other, or makes the bets on a hot oral session. There could be nothing more inciting for the erotic nature of the Scorpio.

Make sure you lose the game and that you wear your sexiest and hottest underwear. Sure, we also need to consider that your Scorpio might want to take your clothes off himself. In this case, relax and enjoy.

If you are daring enough and if you feel comfortable, you may add more spice to the game, proposing to your Scorpio that the one who would lose the game will have to masturbate in front of the other.

You will tell him that you are determined to win, and that soon you will watch him making love to himself with the greatest delight, when in fact your intention is to lose and offer him the possibility of seeing one of his most secret dreams coming true before his amazed and charmed eyes.

You also need to know that showing him how you masturbate; he will have access to your most intimate being, unseen by anyone else before.

You also know how much the Scorpio loves to be on top of things. What can be more exciting than a wonderful show of submission with the most intimate and sexual act ever done?